For those of us who are facing a life without children of our own, this blogspot is for us. It's a hard thing to start sharing, and it's a hard thing to go public with. But I'm willing to take the first step. I'd like to organise a hui in 2011 so we can all get together and have a great weekend. This is the first step towards that. I'm already connected with three others, two in Wellington, one in Auckland. They are a precious group and hugely important to finding the 'happy happy joy joy' in my life! I'll hear from you when you're ready. By the way, the worse news for us is to find out is that someone is pregnant, or is trying IVF again. We're over the other side of that, so please, this is for women who are dealing with accepting that the shape of their future is going to be different than they'd planned. Arohanui to us all.